This Is What's Keeping You Stuck (and how to fix it)

If you are feeling stuck right now... ⁣⁣
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And things aren’t going the way you want them to...⁣⁣
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You need to STOP doing this immediately!  ⁣⁣
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The majority of people are making this mistake and they don’t even know it.  ⁣⁣
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One of my clients sent me this the other day. ⁣⁣
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And it reminded me how powerful questions are... ⁣⁣
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And how asking the right questions can impact your life. ⁣⁣
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My client was having a hard time when it came to building relationships.⁣⁣
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Both with himself and others.⁣⁣
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He saw himself as an introvert and because of that…⁣⁣
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He never knew what to say, what to talk about, or how to start a conversation the right way with others.⁣⁣
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He felt like he lacked the ability to be authentic and was more focused on being liked and accepted than on being himself. ⁣⁣
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And because of that limiting belief about himself… ⁣⁣
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He would ask questions like: ⁣⁣
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What’s wrong with me?⁣⁣
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Why does it have to be so hard?⁣⁣
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Why is this happening to me?⁣⁣
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Why is Tony over there doing so much better than me? I’m way better than he is...⁣⁣
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Sound familiar?  ⁣⁣
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These are the type of questions that most of us ask ourselves when we are feeling stuck... frustrated... dissatisfied... ⁣⁣
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But how do you feel what you ask yourself these questions? ⁣⁣
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Pretty shitty, huh?  ⁣⁣
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That’s because these questions are DISEMPOWERING.⁣⁣
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They are PROBLEM focused and by asking them... ⁣⁣
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You are training your brain to look for problems.  ⁣⁣
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You see.. ⁣⁣
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The quality of your life ⁣⁣
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Depends on the quality of our questions.  ⁣⁣
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However… ⁣⁣
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Most of us have the tendency to ask ourselves some really shitty questions  ⁣⁣
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Questions drain our energy and are rooted in victimhood. ⁣⁣
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Rather than questions that empower us to find solutions.⁣⁣
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Questions we ask direct our focus. ⁣⁣

So the next time you catch yourself feeling overwhelmed..  ⁣⁣
confused... not good enough⁣⁣
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⁣⁣STOP ASKING YOURSELF SHITTY QUESTIONS⁣⁣
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⁣⁣And instead: ⁣⁣
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Ask yourself these questions: ⁣⁣
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What do I want?⁣⁣
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What do I need to do to get it?⁣⁣
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Who do I have to become to get what I want?⁣⁣
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What resources do I have right now that will help me reach this outcome?⁣⁣
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Because the mind is like a powerful search engine.  ⁣⁣
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The questions you ask are the search inquiries. ⁣⁣
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And the answers you get are the experiences in your life.  ⁣⁣
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Want better experiences? ⁣⁣
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Start asking better questions.  ⁣⁣
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What’s one question you find yourself asking that is keeping you stuck? ⁣⁣
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Post it below and I’ll tell you a better question that you can ask that will empower you.